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1878 Harold Goodlake born 23 May, baptized 14 June in Lambeth St. James the Apostle, London. Father William Roper Softlaw, mother Kate Mary (CoE Births & Bapts) (family tree: Kate Mary Goodlake)
1881 census Lambeth, London, 3 Wiltshire Road: William R Softlaw, 33, Clerk & Writer in The Times; Kate M., Wife, 32; Marianne E, 5, Scholar; Harold, Son, 2.
1891 census Lambeth, London, 3 Wiltshire Road: William R Softlaw, 43, Accountant; Kate M, 42; Harold G., 12, Scholar; Wilfred B., 6 m(onths)
1897 <Softlaw, Harold Goodlake – Matr. June 1897, C. Lond. Sch.> (Univ. of London Student Records)
1900. <B.A. 1900> (Cambridge Univ. Alumni)
1901 census Lambeth, London, 72 Tulse Hill: William R Softlaw, 53, Accountant to a Newspaper; Kate M, 52; Harold G., 22 (no occupation); Wilfred B., 10
1902 abt July, Harold Goodlake Softlaw, 24, occupation None, on board “Johannesburg” bound for Madeira and Cape Town (UK Outward passenger lists)
1904 Paymaster at Jumper’s Deep Mine, Cleveland, near Johannesburg South Africa (Forrest Family Tree)
1909 married 12 April in Johannesburg to Gladys Henrietta Harris (1884-1952) (Forrest Family Tree)
1910 birth 26 April of son Ralph Goodlake Softlaw (Forrest Family Tree)
1912 Harold died 24 March in Johannesburg, South Africa (Forrest Family Tree)
1912 Gladys Softlaw, 27, Widow and Ralph G, 2, arriving Plymouth 12 June on board “Medic”